Why did you write the book Under the Big Sky? -laura
Laura - I wrote Under The Big Sky because I realized some time ago that many people are searching for the secret of life without realizing that their journey IS the secret of life. I hope that makes sense. -Trevor
Sometimes my friend don't like me because of my name. -Ariana
Well Ariana, you're friends are not real friends if they make fun of your name. I happen to think Ariana is fantastic. You are lucky to have such a beautiful name. - Trevor
If you made when somebody Dies did you think people will cry? -Kimmi
Thanks for the question Kimmi. We made What On Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? to help kids understand what happens when someone dies. I did think that some people would cry because most people cry when a person or even a pet dies. It's actually good to cry because it helps you with your feelings. - Trevor
Why did you make the Bullies video? -Kim
Great question Kim. I made the video because I was bullied a lot as a child and it was horrible. I don't want anybody to have to go through what I did so I hope to help them become bully-proof. - Trevor
Where can I find your books? -Kristen
You can find my books right here on my web site. Also at amazon.com, freespirit.com and at your local book store. If they don't have them, tell them they need to stock up, would ya.
Can you write the story about your BEST FRIEND? -Chelsea
I think you are talking about my best friend Roy who got his diploma in 'peer pressure'. He talked me into making some bad choices when I was a kid . Yes I am writing the story about him because I want other kids to learn from my mistakes. - Trevor
Are Samuel and Blair ever going to be in a movie of yours? -Emily Englander
I think Samuel and Blair will have their own TV show one day. They are better looking and funnier than me so I am going to keep them off my show. (I don't want them to steal the glory from me.) They might be in another show I do in the future though. Thank you for your question Emily. - Trevor P.S. For readers who don't know, Samuel and Blair are very good friends of mine. (Well they used to be, unless they are mad at me for keeping them off my show.)
Trevor. Do you like your job? -Rick
Rick. I love my work. I wouldn't want any other job. (Except maybe to be a taster in an ice-cream factory or a test pilot (for Lazy Boy chairs).
Trevor, I just lost my great grandfather. I only saw him when I was a baby. Now I feel bad sense I lost him yesterday. I am very very sad. Should I tell my parents? What did you do when you lost your best friend? -Gabby
Dear Gabby - I am so sorry to hear about your great grandfather. I know how sad you feel. Yes, you must tell your parents. It will help you to feel so much better. When I lost my dad, I felt sad, just like you do. That kind of sadness is called grief. To help me feel better I made a memory box. I put pictures and things in the box that reminded me of my dad. I also wrote a letter to my dad telling him how great I thought he was and put it in my memory box. I know you feel bad right now, but I promise you'll feel a little better each day. Somedays you might remember him and feel sad again, but over time you'll feel better. Please don't forget to tell your parents how you feel. - Trevor
My friend is being bullied by three girls who, after seeing Mean Girls, think that if they are mean to some people, they will be popular. The bullies are breaking school rules too. What can I do to help her? What should I say to the "mean girls?" -Carol
Thank goodness you realize that being mean does NOT make you popular. I would not suggest confronting the mean girls because they might just make you their target. Continue to be a loving and supportive to your friend and let the counselor know that this behavior is going on. You can do this in private if it makes you feel more comfortable. Thanks for the question and good luck.
I just heard about Trevor tonight and in looking at the site, how can I tell about the recommended ages for these products? I have an 11 year old who is grieving but I'm not sure if this would be too "childish" for her. Suggestions? Thanks! -Ellen
This show is definitely not too "childish" for her, we suggest a viewing age of 7-14. You can sample the show by watching the clips found in the kids and parents section of the site. Hope this helps!
My friend Marcie has dyslexia. What is dyslexia and can I catch it? -Anne
You cannot catch dyslexia and it has nothing to do with your legs. Dyslexia is a learning difference some people have where they put the wrong letters in the wrong order. Having dyslexia does not mean that you cannot be very successful in life. Albert Einstein was dyslexic and so is the actor Tom Cruise.
Why does it hurt so much when someone dies? -Teddi
The pain a person feels is called grief. Grief is the deepest sadness a person can feel. It is normal to have these feelings when someone close to you dies. You won’t always feel sad and hurt. As time goes by you will begin to feel better and better.
Why do they call you the Doctor of Mischief? -Dana
I am sometimes called The Doctor of Mischief because I often visit hospitals and joke around with sick kids. I am not a real doctor, I am just a mischievous writer who tries to get kids to laugh as much as possible. I believe that laughter can help people heal quicker when they are sick or injured.
My mom and dad are splitting up. Whose side should I take? -Matt
It is important to know that you do NOT have to take sides. Your parents are divorcing each other, they are not divorcing you. If you feel like you are stuck in the middle, let your parents know how you feel.
What is the dumbest thing you’ve ever said? -Abby
That a snail is actually a ball of snot wearing a crash helmet.
I was blamed for something I did not do. What should I say? -Susan
Firstly, try not to get angry. You know you didn’t do it. Focus on the truth instead of what people are saying. Telling the truth is always the best thing to do. Be calm and try your best not to get mad. Getting mad will only make you appear defensive. If nobody believes you and you get punished, remember it is out of your hands. There is nothing much you can do. The truth will come out eventually and when it does, others will admire you for being honest and you will be proud of yourself.
I did not make the soccer team and I feel like a loser. What should I do? -Eve
It does not mean that you’re a loser because you did not make the team. Many great sports heroes did not make teams they tried out for when they were younger. Michael Jordan, one of the greatest basketball players of all time, did not make his high school basketball team at first. If you really want to play a particular sport, practice, work on your skills and try out again and again. Don’t let one failure to make the team stop you from giving it another chance. If that does not work, why not try another sport or hobby?
Can you tell me one of your famous duh jokes? -Alex
Sure. I saw the following warning on a treadmill at the gym where I work out. It said, “If you pass out, stop exercising immediately!” Duh! If you pass out of course you’re going to stop exercising. You’ll be unconscious.
Why is fighting so yucky? -Shawn
Fights are yucky because no matter whether you’re the fighter or the fightee, it always feels awful. It doesn’t matter if you have a screaming match or you get the cold shoulder, fighting is no fun for anyone. A silly little argument can sometimes turn into a huge battle that makes you wonder why you became friends in the first place. It’s important to know that everyone argues sometimes – even the very best of buddies. Figuring out why you are fighting can mean the difference between making up or ending the friendship. Keep in mind: It’s silly to argue just for the sake of it. Try not to take out your feelings on your friends. You might be fighting because something else bothering you. If that’s the case, let your friend know what’s on your mind. Not only will you feel better, your friendship will probably become stronger.
What does violence mean? -Patty
Violence means really hurting or injuring someone because you don’t agree with them. People sometimes think violence is the only way to solve problems, especially if people have been violent toward them. Regardless of the reason, it’s never right to hurt someone you don’t agree with.
What’s your favorite book that you have written? -Vicky
Boy. That’s like asking a mom who her favorite child is. I’m really proud of my books and I pretty much like them all.
